ALWAYS GIVE LOVE

The holy book of the Bible tells us to give to others and it shall be given unto us in return. We are also told in that holy book that we should not expect anything from the person/persons we give to (or render help) but to do it unto God almighty. I see giving as a lifestyle and an attitude that we should all have.

A lot of people enter into a relationship hoping to get one thing or the other out of that relationship. These things may include LOVE, money, attention, care, connection, happiness and the list continues. It is very hard to give and you don’t expect something in return.

Actually, I think it takes a lot of courage, grace, maturity and sacrifice for an individual to give something (or even anything) without expecting anything at all in return whether it is financially or emotionally.

When giving or showing LOVE to people (family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, partners etc) we should not expect anything in return. I know it’s quite hard to practice but that is how life is supposed to be. Life is all about giving and likewise LOVE too-it is about sacrificing.

So, you should not show LOVE because you expect the other person to do same for you. If the individual in question remembers your kind gesture, good but if not carry on with your life as if nothing happened. No matter what happens, bear it in mind that you just touched a life.

The person might not remember to thank you or payback but posterity will forever remember you. Giving to someone that you know can give back to you is not ideal and depicts selfishness. Remember that whatever you sow you will surely reap.

My dear Love Cribbers, I urge us all to always give LOVE and show it sincerely to our neighbours and even enemies without asking for anything in return. By doing this we are indirectly drawing blessings into our lives.

Please stay tuned for the concluding part of this article titled: “Reasons Why You Should Always Show Love and Expect Nothing in Return”.

FALLING IN LOVE: CHOOSING THE RIGHT PERSON TO LOVE

A lot of people have different opinions when it comes to the issue of LOVE. Some people do not even believe that it exists ( I still wonder why) while most people just imagine it and wish that the great spell of  LOVE would one day fall on them.

Today on Lovers Crib, we shall be taking a short stroll on this very important topic titled Falling In Love: The Right Person To Love.

When it comes to the matter of falling in LOVE, (which is interestingly my field of course) we really do not have a say or should I say most times when we fall in LOVE, we initially do not have an idea of what we are doing. I know that most of you would argue with that but I want to drive my point home. What I mean by this is that when we fall in LOVE or we are in LOVE with that special person, people might ask us the reason why we chose that person to LOVE. For you, it will be difficult to explain to friends the reason why you are in LOVE with that person.




















The point I am trying to make here is that for some people who are truly and deeply in LOVE, it’s as if they are remote controlled by a higher authority or under a spell. They may end up falling in LOVE with a person that on a normal occasion they are not expected to fall for.

However, many people have certain criteria for loving another person. They range from looks to wealth, background, religion, education etc or even a combination of all of these factors. Personally, I think you should fall in LOVE with that person that always makes you happy.

You see my fellow Cribbers, happiness is very important in any relationship. I don’t think one should fall in love because of material things. I don’t know the reason why you are in LOVE right now or in that relationship today but I believe that it’s for a good cause and not for anything negative.

If you are presently in a relationship with a selfish purpose I advise you to retrace your steps to avoid hurting your partner and even yourself in the long run. Learn to LOVE the right person the right way, please.

I LOVE YOU ALL.

ABOUT LOVERS CRIB

LOVERS CRIB is a blog that is solely meant for LOVERS. I believe that there is nobody in this world who has never been in LOVE before at one point in time in his or her entire life. For the ones who are presently in LOVE, I wish you success and a happily ever after story while for the ones who are still searching for that special one, I wish you success and good luck in finding the right one.

Also, for the ones who have given up on LOVE before, maybe because of heartbreak, I know how much it hurts because I have been through that rough and rugged road before. It is not an easy ride but I still urge you to give LOVE one more chance in your life. Even if you have done so again and it still did not work out I plead with you not to give up but keep fighting and pushing on till you get that holy grail (TRUE LOVE).

You can still make it in your LOVE life and if you believe that, I join in that big belief with you and affirm it now. So you see, this wonderful blog is actually for everybody that is why i want to urge you to always keep a date with me everyday because I will always give you thought-provoking, sweet and loving stories, conversations, experienced LOVE tips, top class advice and wonderful encouragement.

I won't be the only one doing the talking because am a very good listener too. I am here to listen attentively to your own beautiful or even sad stories, advice, tips and encouragement as well. I help you, you help me and we achieve LOVELY success stories every time here on LOVERS CRIB.

This is actually a blog where LOVERS hang out and share their various LOVE experiences, ways to be a better LOVER and also help each other with valuable and useful advice on how to keep and survive a relationship. I promise to give you the very best of information and useful tips at all time. So, sit back, relax grab a cup of tea or coffee if you can find one and let me take you on this lovey-dovey jolly ride to LOVERS CRIB.